5 Highlights for “They Are Their Own Judges” by Elder Bednar

by | Oct 31, 2025

Stained Glass Window withthe words Moral Agency

Lesson Plans Put Together by a Prayerful Human

Exceptional General Conference Quotes Plus Discussion-Promoting Questions

Lesson topics Elder Bednar covered are: moral agency, the two great commandments, no fear of judgement day and godly fear,

This was a harder lesson plan to put together. I revised it a couple of times to achieve a cohesive flow that’s essential for effective classroom discussions. But Elder Bednar’s talks are ALWAYS worth the trouble. Beautiful concepts taught.

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All blue quotes are from David A. Bednar’s October 2025 General Conference talk (unless otherwise noted).

Quote #1 (moral agency)

Possible engagement tool: Write “Moral Agency” and two phrases underneath that Title on the board: Moral Agency / Invited to Act — Invited to Become. Ask your class to contemplate those two “moral agency” phrases as we read the following quote.

Possible discussion questions: What does the phrase “Moral Agency” mean to you? (Suggestion: if you want, bring up Elder Bednar’s definition below if needed – but if you get good responses, save your time for other quotes and questions.) We are invited to act—what comes up for you when you hear that phrase? What are we invited to become—what do you hope to become? Is life meant to be a test that includes hardships and difficult choices? How do you know that?

Moral Agency

(I would only use this if your class needs help with the concept)

For printable class handouts and copies of this lesson – click here.

Quote #2 (two commandments)

Possible engagement tool: Ask, what are “The Two Great Commandments” and who called them that? (A. Love God, Love Neighbor, Jesus Christ.)

Possible discussion questions: What are the two great struggles every day? (Love God with everything we have and love/esteem others as greatly as we love and esteem ourselves.) What influences in the world work against the two commandments? What habits and behaviors in our personal lives might work against these two commandments?

Quote #3 (become)

Possible discussion questions: What stands out for you from President Oaks’s quote? What is the difference between doing something and becoming something? How can we help ourselves “become” more of a Saint? (Accept all reasonable answers – work on the condition of our hearts and the inner thoughts, focus on God more than ourselves, etc.)

Stained Glass Window withthe words Moral Agency
They were their own judges.

Quote #4 (godly fear)

This is a wonderful quote! I would do this one before quote #3 if you are running out of time.

Possible engagement tool: Elder Bednar helps us understand how we can be at peace with Judgment Day. Invite your class to notice which concepts Elder Bednar shares that feel especially helpful.

Possible activity: Have your class help you pull out the elements of godly fear. The list does not need to be the same words, in the same order or the same number. Just go with what your class comes up with:

  • peace
  • assurance
  • confidence
  • deep reverence
  • obedience
  • correct understandings
  • willing to submit
  • knowledge that we will be accountable for desires, thoughts, words, and acts

Possible discussion question: Which of the elements that Elder Bednar lists is significant for you today and why? (If someone says, “all of them,” just say yes, and who would like to pick one so we can discuss it.)

Quote #5 (do good)

Makes a great closing if you have time.

Summary

Summarize class discussion highlights and/or share your testimony and feelings about Elder Bednar’s talk. Thank your class for their excellent contributions and insights.

Final Comment

Please teach the quotes in any order that makes sense to you.

Teach with confidence, and if you would like some tips on how to feel more confident while teaching – try “9 Tips for More Class Participation.” May the Spirit bless and guide your efforts.

(You can find the full General Conference talk here.)

Printable Quotes and Questions

How to Teach Successfully and Give a Better Lesson

You have great content; now let’s ensure the lesson goes smoothly.

Unless you opt to spend a lot of time on a particular quote, try to pick around 2 questions per quote. Prayerfully select the questions that resonate the most with you and would make a meaningful discussion for your group of personalities.

The above “5 Highlights” quotes and discussion questions fit with Lesson Template 1 —OR— Lesson Template 2.

Lesson Prep

  • You can arrange the quotes in any order that makes sense to you. I suggest starting with the most important ones and working your way down. Don’t EVER worry about covering all the quotes. Rushed lessons are not as effective.
  • If you want the discussion to be more robust and meaningful, hand out reading assignments ahead of time and ask the reader to answer one question about them (i.e. pick one of the questions from each quote and give it to them, along with the assigned quote). The sooner you do this, the better, but if possible, at least show it to them before the Sacrament meeting. You can also send it via text or email.
  • Ask various people to read and participate, especially those who are not often asked to do so.

Lesson Delivery

  • Ensure every class member has the conference talk and scriptures in front of them or on their phone. Always invite the class to read along—hearing and seeing the words together increases comprehension and engagement.
  • Avoid videos – they shut down discussion. Save them for personal study.
  • If the discussion gets too non-spiritual, pull it back by going to the next quote or question.
  • Make sure you assign others to read the quotes. You’re talking enough already, and letting others read allows more people to participate.
  • Encourage discussion by accepting all reasonable answers. Validate people for participating, and be thankful they spoke up. Engage with the answer in a conversational way whenever it feels natural. Never say, “That’s not the right answer.”
  • Remember, spiritual discussion is golden. We want people to talk about the gospel together.
  • Never say, “We haven’t got to that part of the lesson yet.” If the discussion takes a different turn than your planned lesson, roll with it. The Spirit intends for you to be successful.

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